Be Present

The theme of the conference we were at was “Be Present”. Heading off to it, I didn’t have many thoughts surrounding what context this meant. I assumed it probably had something to do with being a force within your church or community.

This message would end up being so profound in my life. It was so important that the Lord asked us to leave our baby, flying hundreds of miles across North America to attend two-thirds of a conference, and rush back for my friend’s wedding, just to hear this.

This quote from one of the speakers (I honestly can’t remember who said it), sums up the context of the “Be Present” theme.

Often times in ministry, our personal lives, our careers, etc we are so engrossed with the next step we miss what is happening now. I can tell you a lot of the verses in the bible that surround vision or the plans the Lord has for our lives, but I miss the whole part about what the Lord is doing NOW. I miss the “be still and know” verses. My life becomes consumed with the next step.

I think a lot about what I’ll do once I have two or three children, instead of soaking up every bit of my joyful time with one.

Now, take this message in balance. I’m a huge believer in walking out the vision God has given you, and I know the positive momentum vision adds to our lives. But this is the key: we miss out on truly loving God and people when we are not engaged in the now.

When I was a little girl, I dreamed about how wonderful it would be to be married one day and to have a baby. I would take care of my cabbage patch baby boy named Tommy, and lather him with love and affection, “practicing” for my own little boy one day.

Well believe it or not, “one day” has come and I have a little boy. Wasn’t it just the other day I pushed Tommy in a miniature stroller? The next stage of life will slip away as quickly as the first and I want to take the time to stop and drink in every bit of what’s going on. I want to give God the glory for what he’s doing in my life now. I don’t want anyone to ever think I was too distracted to care for them.

This verse in Proverbs 21:1 illustrates how our lives as leaders should be in the hands of Lord.

The king’s heart is like a stream of water directed by the Lord; he guides it wherever he pleases.

Streams follow the watercourse given to them. We don’t need to worry about the next step when we simply glide like calm waters through down the path the Lord has carved. Sometimes we might plummet down a waterfall and wonder what the Lord is doing, but in the end our stream will go exactly where He designed it to.

 

Do you find it hard to stay engaged with the present? Are you constantly looking to the future in an unbalanced way?

 

 

Apples & Oranges

Being in California was wonderful! I can’t wait to get some pictures up of the beauty we saw. We were at a leadership conference, and we drank in so many wonderful sessions. I found myself applying so many principles to mothering. Once you’re a parent, there is no separating anything from the world of raising children.

I believe some of the strongest leaders in the world need to be mothers. I also believe moms need to have some of the deepest leadership training. The same goes for fathers too, but I am a mom so I’m more passionate about this! Moms and dads have the opportunity for greater influence on the kids they are raising than any teacher. We need to have a self-studied “master’s” in leadership to equip ourselves with the tools of effective leading. I am not ashamed to admit that as a girl in her early twenties, I don’t know all I need to know about raising my little boy. I am hungry to learn.

I say that to have a basis of applying some of the principles I learned to my parenting. At one of the sessions I was at, Jon Acuff  said this; don’t compare your beginning to someone’s middle.

Th quote above is one that really spoke to me as a mom. As a first time mom, we compare ourselves so much to other moms, and measure what we can handle as a trying-to-keep-up mom to one baby, against the beautiful super mom with three kids, a spotless house, nice minivan (or SUV, you pick), elaborate suppers nightly placed on the table and wisdom ever flowing off her lips.

Ok, you may not actually know a mom like that, but we do this! We compares apples and oranges. A brand new business to a large corporation. A starter home, to someones mid life dream house. New mom to experienced mom.

We need to make accurate comparisons, accept the encouragement we receive and ignore the voices in our head telling us that we fail next to our self-imposed standard. Give yourself credit for how far you’ve come. I have grown so much over the last eleven months, but instead of congratulating myself, I just raise the bar higher.

Through the Lord’s grace and mercy he will continue to grow us into the godly moms he is calling us to be and the godly leaders he wants us to be. If we are sidetracked by comparison or the negative voices in our own head, we’ll be completely pulled off course.

My biggest fear is waking up and realizing I’m not in God’s will and that I’m not allowing myself to be used by him to the fullest extent. Receiving the Lord’s truth is a huge step in the right direction!

Do you struggle with comparing yourself to people more experienced than you?

I can’t wait to share more from our time at Catalyst West Conference!

 

Anticipation

With TWO MORE SLEEPS until our California trip, I’ve been thinking a lot about the word anticipation.

Wikipedia defines anticipation as;

is an emotion involving pleasure, excitement, and sometimes anxiety in considering some expected or longed-for good event.

I think that’s a pretty good descriptor of what I’ve been feeling. As the trip approaches I’m in the tension of wanting it to come so bad and hoping that is doesn’t come too quickly. The idea that I’ll probably sleep through three nights in a row without having to run in and stick a soother back in a mouth, or console a thrashing teether is almost too good to be true. On the other hand, the idea that if my son is in pain or upset and won’t have me near definitely hurts my heart.

The reason I don’t want it to come too quickly, is that I know once it’s here it’s going to so fast, and then I won’t have this big, exciting event to look forward to. Since this trip was a surprise for us, I have no idea when we could be going away somewhere like this without kids. On the other hand, I know the Lord is going to do something in us, and I don’t want to live another day unchanged.

So regardless of how fast or slow I want this trip to come, Tuesday morning at 7:20 a.m. is going to be here and we’ll be arriving at the airport. If I cry when we leave they will definitely be tears of mixed emotions.

The picture of that little boy is so illustrative of myself. I anticipate EVERYTHING! It seems that most events can come and go and I’ll have experienced a wide range of emotions. I am definitely a “feeler” person. I can wake up on a Sunday morning with a deep sense of excitement for church, and then feel torn up inside when I realize it’s during Caleb’s nap, to rise again when I realize he’s going to be ok.

There are many things in life to anticipate.

We can “eagerly await” many spiritual things through the hope that we have in Jesus Christ.

I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit. (Romans 15:13)

If you take the time to watch this promotional video for the conference we’re attending, I think you’ll understand why I’m experiencing such anticipation!

As I anticipate Tuesday like a little girl waiting for her birthday, and as I anticipate Tuesday as a young mom whose never left her baby that long, I’m so thankful for the promises that my God has made to me. I’m thankful that we are following what he has asked us to do, and going under the covering of our church leadership, for in those two things there is greater protection. I am thankful to be going on a fun trip to California with my husband! I know that my God cares for our needs and our desires!

Are you a “feeler”? Do you anticipate everything? Or are you a little more level hearted?

My Mimic

As my little boy grows, he is of course becoming more verbal every day. He loves to make many sounds. Some seems like words, others are definitely just sounds. He has all the sounds that end in “aa” down, except mama. I’ll hear dada, baba, lala, gaga, rara, and the list can go on. But no mama. I hope one day soon to hear that little word come out of his mouth. Somehow I think he’s going to be able to use that against me at first, since I already melt at the various little things he says, let alone if he looks at me with his big eyes and asks me something starting with “mama”.

This morning I was reading in James are was hit again by this verse.

Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires. So get rid of all the filth and evil in your lives, and humbly accept the word God has planted in your hearts, for it has the power to save your souls. (James 1:19-21)

As Caleb has been learning sounds, he has become very good at mimicking. Last week he would do a shocked sounding “ohhhhhh” every time he saw something new. Then this week he has been coping my “uh-oh”. The other day was an eye opener to me. I was frustrated about something and I was ranting to myself and then at some point I said “oh dear”.

My baby boy looked up at me and sayed “oh deee”, “oh dee”, “oh dee” and then laughed at himself.

I was so suprised that at not quite eleven months of age he was listening to my little rant so intently and picking up on sounds that he himself could master.

This challenge in James was a reminder to me that I now have a little person watching and waiting to copy everything. My need to be “quick to listen and slow to speak” is huge. As I watch what I say and model a good example to Caleb, I hope that through me many seeds with be planted that lead to the saving of his soul.

This translates to every other relationship of course. It’s funny how a little guy like Caleb can remind me of so many important life lessons!

Does you child copy everything you say? Share your story below!

Blessings,

 

California Bound

Ever since the fire I can’t even begin to explain the things the Lord has been doing in us. I’d say really the most incredible stuff began when we decided to take a marriage course at our church. That step of obedience when I didn’t feel we “needed” to take the course, released many spiritual blessings into our lives. But, I’m not going to touch on a lot of that right now. Right now, I want to tell you about California!

Like I said, ever since the fire God has been completely following through on the promise that he has spoken over so many situations in my life. His promise to me is that what the enemy intended for harm, the Lord is using for good. (This is based on what Joseph said at the end of his life in Genesis 50). And it has been so with our fire!

We had a lot of favour with insurance, and since my husband is a carpenter we received more money for our garage than it will cost him to rebuild it. So we’ve been praying about what to do with the extra money, and wow the Lord has had some big plans for our lives. We thought we had received the whole picture. Then on Monday the Lord threw in a little surprise for us!

We were talking with a lady at our church who was attending a conference with her husband (one of the pastors) in California next week. I told her how we had been craving a leadership conference, and that we’d have loved to go, but the timing wasn’t right. She told us there were two extra tickets for the conference. We laughed, thinking it was impossible to go. Finances were the number one thing on my mind. I knew we didn’t have the money to up and leave for California. I am also the matron of honour in a wedding next weekend, AND our son doesn’t have a passport. That seemed like a lot of strikes against it. We conceded that there would be many more conferences, and one day we’d go.

Two things I forgot about in that moment.

1. We had extra money that the Lord was still guiding us in.

2. My husband had a vision recently of him and I at a conference in California.

Minor details.

I didn’t think anything of it the rest of the night, and on our way home from the marriage class my husband said he really felt that the Lord was burning in his heart that we HAD TO GO to this conference.

I panicked.

I said there was absolutely no way that could be the Lord since we’d have to leave Caleb behind.

Shocked by my lack of enthusiasm? I may desire to do the Lord’s will, but honestly I fight fear more than you know.

Anyway, I finally agreed to pray about it and the peace that passes understand (read more about that here), flooded me and all the knots in my stomach disappeared. We prayed a little more after than felt the Lord saying GO!

By midnight that evening (three hours later) all the details were basically worked out. Our flights, hotel and rental car was booked (at a fabulous price I might add). We finalized some details surrounding Caleb, and my husband’s parents agreed (although it didn’t take much convincing) to look after Caleb!

The morning after we decided to go however, I woke up sick with dread over leaving Caleb for three nights. After some time laying my fears before the Lord, that peace returned, and I knew we had made the right decision. God was calling Andrew and I away together to grow closer and hear more about his next steps for our lives.

On Tuesday of next week we will be on a plane heading to Catalyst West: Be Present Conference!

If you remember a while back I wrote about how I missed our honeymoon and was desiring a bit of adventure (read here). Well, looks like the Lord is granting me my hearts desire. This is the beach close to our hotel.

I’m definitely excited for this!

I hear the Lord speaking so loudly to me “I am the Lord, I make a way where there is no way!”

He made a way through the red sea, he provided water from a rock, he set prisoners free, he heals our diseases, and he cares about the desires of our heart.

I look forward to keeping you all updated on what’s going on with us down in California.

All glory to God who takes our broken situations and fills them with light, hope and purpose! May you see him make a way through your path that seems obstructed!

Jennifer (my other identity)

“My name is actually Monica, but I would like it if you would please call me Jennifer.”

I wished so much that my name was Jennifer when I was younger. I believed I would be more beautiful if I had that name. This thought went through my mind as a child so many times. I don’t really understand it now, but between the ages of four and ten I had a fascination with the name Jennifer. I think there was a girl in my church’s College & Career with that name who must have made an impact on me. Still, I desperately wanted to change my name. What kind of name was Monica anyway?

I had a few friends at the time that had an obsession with the name Jasmine. Similar situation, only they wanted to be whisked away by Aladdin.

I tried getting my family to call me Jennifer. When I told my dad he just laughed, and mom too seemed un-obliging. My sisters
gave it a solid effort, since I’m sure they were trying to change their names too, but a couple of days in, Jennifer still wasn’t catching on.

For a brief time, I told new people I first met that my name was Jennifer, creating my own identity with them as this dream girl, and living as Monica among my friends and family.

As I’ve grown up, I’m thankful that new name didn’t catch on (no offense to all the Jennifer’s). I’ve learned to appreciate who I am, not try to be someone else. I’ve discovered the meaning of my name actually is true to who I am and what I’m passionate about, since Monica means “counselor, advisor, truth”.

There is an epidemic sweeping our world where kids, teens, and some adults are stuck in an identity crisis. They have no idea who they are. All they know is they want to be someone else. They are trying on different personalities like outfits, seeing which one fits them best. Even Christians are swearing and having inappropriate conversations with some friends, and then showing up at church looking engaged in the service. Right and wrong continues to become more blurred.

Ever since I learned about this “multiple personality disorder” that is taking my generation by storm, I’ve been challenged in my own heart to see if I’m ever switching personalities or identities depending on who I’m around. Changing who we are around different groups of people isn’t just dishonouring to ourselves, it’s hurts the Lord.

God created us each uniquely and individually for a purpose. Part of this purpose is to bring different pieces of truth to other people. If you shy away from who you are around an intelligent businessperson, a confident mom, or a stylish teen, or an intimidating child, you are depriving them from the gift of yourself that you could impart to them during the course of your conversation or interaction with them.

Psalm 139:14 says

Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it. (emphasis mine)

God made us each unique and wonderfully complex for a purpose. Ephesians 2:10 says

 For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.

If we don’t walk out life the way the Lord created us too, we are missing our on the tasks he predestined us to do! It hurts me deeply to think that I could miss any part of what the Lord has planned for me.

In the words of my son’s not so spiritual Sandra Boynton book, Perfect Piggies, “you got to be you, we got to be we!”

May we each walk confidently in who the Lord created us to be!

High Five For Friday!

High Five for a long weekend Friday! My husband is home today since Good Friday is his day off over Easter weekend. I’m looking forward to relaxing and getting some spring organizing done!

I’m linking up with Lauren @ From My Grey Desk Blog. Head over there and read some other HF4F posts!

1. I am giving away two $5 Starbucks cards to celebrate my 100th Blog Post! I’m excited about this because I love my readers and treasure the time they spend hearing about my life. Have you entered yet? You can do so here

2. We woke up to the rain falling this morning. I love a rainy day every now and then. We rarely get rain where we live, it’s sun or snow! It reminds me of when my family lived on the West Coast. There’s something very sentimental about rain, especially when I know my whole family will be together and we can have a fun in-house day! Rain also reminds me of my favourite movie Pride & Prejudice (the one with Colin Firth and Jennifer Ehle), and I just want to get soaked walking down a street like this, to come home and drink tea by a fire and watch my favourite movie!

3. I went to a baby clothes/items sale this past week and found Caleb a Vancouver Canucks jersey (well there is some debate in our house as to whether it’s a jersey or a sweater)! I was pretty excited about it! 

4. Caleb is eating really well with a spoon! He loves trying to eat his food by himself now. It’s pretty cute!

5. The weather has been so nice this week, I’ve gone for a few walks to our nearby grocery store, met up with a friend who has a baby too and went walking. It feels so good to get outside after winter. Caleb is so excited about everything he sees. He just looks around going “Oooooo ohhhh, ahhhhh”

BONUS: #6. I am so happy that Jesus Christ rose from the dead and this weekend we get to celebrate his LIFE! Because of it I have hope, joy, peace, love and eternal life.

 

Happy Easter! Have a wonderful long weekend!

 

Peace Beyond Me

Oh my ten month old. He has a cold, and is really struggling with the challenges in his little life. He is also discovering that he has choices, and has desire. Right now I am watching him randomly chuck pieces of food from his high chair. He is dividing his cheese and strawberries into two piles. The ones that pass the ten month old inspection, and the rejects. Rejects go on the floor. The good enough ones are eaten. There is no rhyme or reason to this process.

This short week has been long. Weird stages bring a lot of different challenges. I feel like my list of when he’s not happy has been much longer than when he is happy the last two weeks.

When my son is happy: 

Eating snacks that pass inspection

Climbing over top of me

Being held, sometimes

Watching me dancing to keep him from crying

In the bath, sometimes

When my son is upset:

Being put in his high chair

Being placed in his crib

Being put on the change table

Being buckled into his car seat

Being placed in his stroller

When I turn my back for three seconds

When I’m not watching him play

When I try to put food in my own mouth

When I’m not giving him my constant undivided attention

When I unload the dishwasher

When I try to make supper

etc, etc, etc. I won’t bore you with all the details.

So today I managed to distract him for about 3 and a half minutes with a colander, a pot and a wooden spoon so that I could inhale my toast before screaming and crying ensued. I sat down at the kitchen table quickly, trying not to waste a second that could be used for getting some caffeine in my body after four really long nights. I laughed to myself at how this moment of rest came while the house was filled with the loud clanging sound of a pot being smashed repeatedly. Before this would have annoyed me or gave me a headache.

The verse that came to mind was this;

and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
(Philippians 4:7)

I have been kicking myself repeatedly for things I’ve been doing that I know are creating bad sleeping patterns this week. Today was the fourth morning in a row where he wouldn’t fall asleep on his own so we drove around. I couldn’t justify missing a nap when he’s fighting a cold and can’t breathe well.

As I sit in the line up for the Tim Horton’s drive thru finishing this post, I see a few other moms in the line up with babies in the car seat. They’re probably trying to snatch a few minutes of peace too.

Life changes and the moments we treasure are much different from the ones we used to.

Mom’s: you know that you can easily be engulfed in discouragement. Guilt, exhaustion, frustration, and confusion can get the better of us quickly, and we can be sent into a tailspin of discouragement and despair. You might have the same swirling thoughts that I do sometimes;

“he’s never going to fall asleep…”
“I’m never going to sleep…”
“will we ever sleep…”

I am so thankful for the promise of the Lord’s peace that goes beyond our comprehension. And this is the peace that will guard our hearts and minds. We need our heart and mind to be guarded. Proverbs 4:23 gives this decree

 Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. 

I just hear the cry from the writer of that wise saying, conveying to us the destruction that can come from not guarding our hearts. If our hearts are full of despair, discouragement and disillusionment, then how we treat our family will flow out of that filter. If we let the Lord’s peace speak truth to our heart and we actively take thoughts captive to guard our heart, we will relate to our families from a place of love, joy and peace.

Jesus, guard my heart today. Replace the enemies lies with the truth of your Word. I can do all things through you who gives me strength, and I receive your peace that does not make sense considering the circumstance. You are the God of the impossible, and I am so thankful that it’s a Savior like that who I serve!

 

Bring out the barbeque!

Ah, spring is here. The sun in shining, the air is warm, new possibilities seem to be waiting around every corner. Another thing that excites me about this warm weather is barbequing! Ok, well my husband barbequing. I’ve never done it before. I think it’s on purpose (honey, don’t read this), so that I don’t have to cook the food, I just prepare it! I can have everything ready and he seems to enjoy some alone time at the barbeque when he comes home. It’s a win-win. I think.

Anyway, here is my favourite homemade hamburger recipe. You can find the recipe that I adapted this from here.

My husband goes crazy over these burgers. I love it. When something so simple as these burgers can get you so much praise and admiration from your spouse, you can’t go wrong! Now combine this with the homemade barbecue perogies recipe I shared before, a caesar salad, my husband’s favourite drink; root beer, and I have a sure to impress summer fun supper. A nice summer dessert with this would be the S’mores Cookies I posted a while ago.

I hope these work as well on your husband as they do on mine 🙂

Ingredients:

1 lb lean ground beef

10 whole wheat crackers crushed, or 3/4 cup fine bread crumbs or 3/4 cup oatmeal (depending what you have on hand)

1/2 cup grated cheddar cheese, divided

3 tbsp. chopped cilantro, divided

1 egg

1/8 tsp. pepper

1 tsp. onion powder

1/2 tsp. garlic powder

2 tbsp. barbeque sauce

1 tomato, diced

Directions:

Combine the ground beef, crackers, 1/4 cup of the cheese, 2 tbsp. cilantro, pepper, onion powder and garlic powder together. Shape in to patties. Brush with barbeque sauce. Top with remaining cheese while your husband is cooking them.

Combine the diced tomato and remaining cilantro and top the burgers with it. We love ours with lots of mayonnaise, mustard and relish. Eating these on toasted buns make it even more delicious!

Variations: For spicy burgers replace half the cilantro with 2 tbsp. of salsa. If you don’t like the flavour of cilantro, green onions can be used instead.

Next time we make these I’ll get a picture to add to this post!

I hope you enjoy these. Who knows, these burgers may just make you feel like you’re eating outdoors in a place this this!

But I’m not making any promises…

A little bit of honesty

“Create in me a clean heart O God. Renew a loyal spirit in me.” Psalm 51:10

I have shared a bit lately about how the Lord has been working in my life in terms of praying for my husband and my son. There is a phrase that we repeat over and over in our Student Leadership class that has been hitting me this morning.

This past week…no, this past month has been one of the biggest tests I’ve walked through in a while. I haven’t written about this, but my sister and her son who were living with us suddenly left, extremely abruptly. It was a huge shock. Then a week later we had our fire. A week after that God revealed some marriage issues that we needed to walk through (that will be a post when it’s not so recent and I’ve fully processed the lessons we’ve learned), then I hurt my neck twenty-four hours later.

All of these things were weighing on me to some degree or another. During the Married for Life course that we have been taking we felt our prayer time as a couple grow exponentially. Instead of praying generally, we are more organized, and issues are actually being covered in prayer. Out of that, our personal prayer and devotional life has began to soar again.

Some of the struggles that have come up haven’t been as hard. Honestly, the fire was kind of exhilarating when it was all said and done. We had an incredible story of protection, the insurance money came through and covered everything and we didn’t lose much that was important. I was overflowing with thankfulness, but not tested in the same way as you are when your relationship are tested by fire.

A week ago today I cried all morning. I asked the Lord what more he wanted me to do. He said to me that phrase again.

He didn’t want me to strive in these tests any longer. He wanted me to BE close to him, and know his heart, and ask him to change me, instead of trying to change myself.

I prayed a scary prayer that morning. It was all to do with the Lord putting his finger on me, and working out the issues in my own heart. Then I cried out to the Lord in true desperation for my husband and for my son. I prayed with AUTHORITY. When I didn’t know where to start, I picked up my Power of a Praying Wife and Power of a Praying Parent books and shouted those prayers up to heaven. My tears turned from tears of sadness and discouragement to tears of joy and thankfulness. Something broke in our home that morning. The enemy lost any hold he had. I have chosen to build upon that every day since.

One day last week my husband came home and said to me that he didn’t know what was going on but he felt like he was walking in the greatest sense of victory and was just having an amazing week in the Lord.

I didn’t say anything, except that I was proud of how he seeking the Lord and actively loving us. I knew God showed me in that moment that my prayers (and Andrew’s prayers) were changing our lives quickly.

There are big things the Lord wants my family to do. We know that. We’ve known that since we got engaged. We were not put together to simply enjoy life, although we certainly do. My gifts are combined with my husband’s gifts in a way where power, anointing and authority are multiplied a hundredfold.

I know it hasn’t been long, but we are continuing to pray protection over our home, and we will springboard off what the Lord has been doing in us over the last month. And then as high as we get to in our life time, will just be the springboard for where our kids jump from.

As I have become closer with God this week, and laid my burdens at his feet, the “doing” has become much easier. The Lord gave me fresh feelings of love, so much deeper than I could have imagined for my husband. The times that the three of us have spent together, has been so much fun. I remained calm on Sunday, didn’t panic about what to wear or how tired Caleb would be for missing his morning nap at church and we went for breakfast before church. We got to really enjoy our family time, instead of making family time happen.

Letting God transform my heart is a lot easier than me trying to transform my heart. It’s a little bit scary, and not an easy journey. I’ve had an emotional week as the Lord continues to bring stuff up to me. But the healing he brings is much quicker, much deeper and much more whole than any other I’d find somewhere else.

I look forward to sharing more of this exciting journey with you and I believe I will continue to testify of the Lord’s goodness and faithfulness in working in our lives to see us live whole, passionate and purposeful lives serving our King here on earth.

My 100th Post! (Starbucks Giveaway)

I want to take a post to say a huge THANK YOU to all my readers! You have no idea how much of an encouragement you have been to me. I started writing in September (see my first ever post here) as a way that God showed me to overcome my baby blues and hopefully encourage others through the things He was showing me. Since then I have tried to share my heart and life with my readers, and have had an overwhelmingly positive response.

I take this post to thank you because it is a special post. This is my 100th blog, and I want to show you my appreciation. I am giving away two $5 Starbucks cards. Here is how you can enter:

  1. Leave a comment on this post in the comment box below telling me which post that I have written is your favourite. Please leave it in Wordpress, not Facebook, if you are having issues let me know. Make sure you include your email address so I can notify you if you win!
  2. BONUS entry #1: Like My Red & Purple Life | Blog on Facebook
  3. BONUS entry #2: Follow @myredpurplelife on Twitter

The winner will be chosen on Sunday, April 8th, and will be notified by email.

This draw is valid for residents of Canada, The United States, Australia, Hong Kong, Ireland, Mexico, and the United Kingdom. My apologies to my readers outside of these countries!

So thanks to you, my beloved friends. You each have a piece of my heart, and I don’t take for granted the fact that you take the time to read about my struggles, triumphs, tears and joys.

 

Much love to you all, and all the best in the draw!